The Work Situation
After the send off, I was called back. Then two weeks into the year, I get a fatter offer somewhere else. But like Pink says, “there’s the comfort associated with staying with an employer you know.” I remember saying that I would love to delacre I Quit. But I found out its not easy. Being the only one who was retained and being very close to my two bosses. Am now in a situation where I am waiting for them to fire me, then take that other position which still available. Being very few in the office, the work load has been overwhelming! Its been tiring, and with little returns if any. My time here has been curtailed as a result.
The Recession Bites
Business has been low. Low Low Low. Been low that I am DITC-ing (Digging In The Crates) what was made months ago. All the same, there is a bit of a flicker this month. I am not going o go down though. I’ll fight this thing tooth and nail.
The School Situation
School, had to put back the date to March. However, everything pertaining to this has been put in place. Cant wait to find myself inside a class. I am not backing out of this one. I am tired of jua kali stuff.
The Home Front
Nephew moving out soon as the mother is back. Has been one of the reasons I have been on the Lunatic Express. Looking forward to taking some home whenever an opportunity comes along. But I have to get a nice restaurant too. He did save me alot on that part.
The Committee Man
This year I have 5 friends who want to quit the bachelor and bachelorette world. Very close friends. I am in the committees that are organizing the dowers and the walks on the aisles. Matter of fact, I am tagged to be the best man in two of those! I dont know what other churches (besides the Roman Catholic) or the law says about being best man and you are not anywhere close to even having a relationship
It scares me that am being left behind. But at the same time, I am in no hurry. Got alot to take care off before I can join them. Then again, am not a fan of weddings. One of my friends, Cole getting hitched this year is. Most of the Saturdays I called him last year, he always said, “I am at my aunt’s cousin’s uncle, my boss’s brother, my workmate’s sister’s my fiance’s aunt wedding. Weddings weddings weddings! Damn! May be he was doing a research or something. The idea of being in a committee is not even funny. But then again I have to be there for my friends.
This other buddy P who got married three years ago without their parents consent (but it was for all the good reasons) and this is how it went down. Someone takes to him those papers that people sign to his office, he sings. Then the someone takes a matatu to a certain estate’s beauty shop and she signs. They meet in the evening hug, kiss, then dinner. The parents are still in the dark as most of their friends except 4 or 5 of us and now you. This year, they want to make it known so they can live together. I am the mix for having signed as a witness to this. We are supposed to over see a smooth transition that doesnt get the parents knowing what happened three years ago. Suggestions are welcomed on how to do this are welcomed.
In Other News
My immediate former (never mentioned before here) and whom we didn’t last a year, was born on 29th of this month. Last year I played gentleman and got her something. We haven’t spoken in a very long time. I don’t know if it will be insensitive of me to ignore her when we get to 28th and 1st of March. Matter of fact I dont know why I am even thinking about it because I deleted the number and many other numbers about 5 weeks ago. But at the same time, whats the most sober way to handle the situation?
Off to see whats been cutting at yours.